Mistakes Couples Make In a Relationship.

Being negative: Fuelling negativity is probably the worst mistake couples can make in a committed relationship. Arguing or even fighting over individual issues is fine, but you cannot focus on the negative aspects all the time. Remember it was the positivity that brought the two of closer.

Involving in-laws during fights: Being on good terms with your husband’s parents is one of the most important things for a successful marriage. So if you are bringing up your in-laws constantly during fights, then it just goes to prove you don't respect them. This probably won't go down too well with your husband too and he might start losing respect for you.

No time: Most couples fail to give time and make the effort to work on their relationship. Being busy with work is one thing, but do you take the initiative to find the time to treasure what you have? Adjust your schedule once in a while and enjoy a cup of coffee, a movie or a weekend getaway with your partner.

Being baby-obsessed: When one partner wants to have a baby and the other does not, it can cause unrest in the relationship, especially if the other partner is bogged down by career and other priorities in life. Give yourself a break, go on a vacation and enjoy your privacy.

Lack of communication: No matter how busy you are, talking to your partner always helps. If you are waiting for some opportune time to talk with your partner, then you are making a mistake. It’s healthy to talk, speak up!

Involve outsiders: It is easy to involve a third person in your personal spats, but once you do so, there is no scope of regret. Your friend or acquaintance is unlikely to understand what the actual problem is and may not be the right person to seek help from in this situation.

Not getting over the past: Time never stops for anyone and so it is imperative to resolve your fights then and there. Bottling up issues over a period of time gives rise to further disagreements. It also leads to emotional breakdowns!

Refuse to accept blame: It is only fair to accept blame if you have disappointed your partner. Time and again our ego takes over and we refuse to take onus for our faults. Remember you have nothing to lose with your spouse.

Promise to change: Most often couples in a long-term relationship promise to quickly change their attitude or behaviour. It is important to remember that a problem needs to be addressed in the long run more than making false promises to change.